<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Poems to the Beloved ﷺ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Bismillah. We intend by this to distribute his light, remind ourselves of his way, and bring forth our hearts with humility to the Messenger of All Mankind ﷺ. May Allah send him the most fragrant, pure blessings and salutations of peace. ﷺ]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!-jgi!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fpearlsofwomen.substack.com%2Fimg%2Fsubstack.png</url><title>Poems to the Beloved ﷺ</title><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2026 09:36:02 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Poems to the Beloved]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[pearlsofwomen@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[pearlsofwomen@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[pearlsofwomen@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[pearlsofwomen@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[the matcha and the mountain]]></title><description><![CDATA[Divine creation holds no bias; your 9am coffee holds the same significance as your wedding day]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/the-matcha-and-the-mountain</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/the-matcha-and-the-mountain</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2026 23:10:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!BBld!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa357c4b8-e3d6-4240-b9be-ace32a3df012_4032x3024.jpeg" length="0" 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It&#8217;s a reminder of our Lord&#8217;s &#1580;&#1605;&#1575;&#1604; and &#1580;&#1604;&#1575;&#1604;.</p><p>Our Lord is so Subtle and Soft towards His servants. He cared enough for our worldly experience to enlighten our eyes with both the subtlety of flower bouquets and the majesty of mountains. Both equivalent in effort for Him: simply, the power of &#1603;&#1606;, &#8220;Be.&#8221; His &#1603;&#1606; carries the power to deliver delicate petals, softly touched, sensitive to ripping, caressed by the human hand. His &#1603;&#1606; also carries the power to instill the towering peaks, embedded deep within the earth, for the human to traverse and to strike awe in the hearts.</p><p><em>We tend to measure our lives in the big phases.</em> The wedding. The promotion. The acceptance letter. The graduation. We mark time by what is loud enough to be named, what we can put a date next to. But most of a life is not lived in those moments. Most of a life is lived in what happens around them: the imam who tweeted the exact reminder that you needed to hear that evening, without knowing you needed it. The job that fell through, which is the only reason you were free when the better one appeared. The coffee that spilled in the morning, so that you could meet a specific person at a specific time. We call these coincidences because we have not yet learned to call them what they are.</p><p>Allah says in Surah Al-Hijr:</p><blockquote><p> <em>&#8220;And there is nothing but that with Us are its depositories, and We do not send it down except according to a known measure&#8221; (15:21)</em>.</p></blockquote><p>Every single thing that reaches you, every moment, every experience, descends in a measured amount, at a measured time. This is qadr. Not a vague sense that things happen for a reason, but the precise claim that <em>everything is divinely coordinated, </em>the small moments just as well as the &#8220;big ones&#8221; &#8212; they&#8217;re all the same to Allah the Exalted. If the timing of the universe&#8217;s largest events is not random, the timing of your Tuesday is not random either.</p><p>Consider Musa, &#1593;&#1604;&#1610;&#1607; &#1575;&#1604;&#1587;&#1604;&#1575;&#1605;, a fugitive, exhausted, arriving at a well in Madyan with nothing to his name. Of all the small things the Quran could have preserved from that encounter, it preserves how Shu&#8217;ayb&#8217;s daughter walked toward him: with shyness, with modesty, careful in how she approached a stranger (28:25). A detail of gait. A manner of walking. And from that detail, a household, a covenant, a prophet&#8217;s years of refuge were set into motion. Allah did not need to tell us how she walked. He chose to. Because the small gesture was never small to Him. It was load-bearing. And now that I think of it &#8212; Musa even arriving at the exact moment that the girls were struggling! (Do you know anything about how long it takes to traverse a desert? If not &#8212; well, the Jews know).</p><p>The wisdom behind the range of Allah&#8217;s creation and His timing of our moments is extremely interesting but difficult to grasp. Neither the flower is more important than the mountain, nor the mountain more important than the flower. He decided to create both. And neither is the way Shuayb&#8217;s daughter walked toward Musa less important than the prophethood that followed. He decreed both, in the same measure, with the same care. <strong>The ordinary moment is not a placeholder for the real chapters of your life.</strong> It is its own Divine coordinate, written with the same precision as all of the spotlight moments &#8212; it&#8217;s just simply waiting for you to notice it as divinely ordained (and thus, immensely important). This is heavy, and creates accountability and ownership over the moments of our lives. It&#8217;s not easy to carry that every millisecond is Divinely coordinated and thus highly important. To be able to carry it requires an understanding of our Lords Mercy; and to be able to relinquish to Him the artificial control we have over our lives. You will then see how He plans for You and moves You to His will.</p><p>&#1604;&#1575; &#1581;&#1608;&#1604; &#1608;&#1604;&#1575; &#1602;&#1608;&#1577; &#1573;&#1604;&#1575; &#1576;&#1575;&#1604;&#1604;&#1607; </p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Islamic Antidote to Founder’s Block]]></title><description><![CDATA[notes from an ai product manager, stanford grad, and corporate drone who&#8217;s trying to stay sane and real]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/the-islamic-antidote-to-founders</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/the-islamic-antidote-to-founders</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2026 21:17:33 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you find yourself wanting to start a side hustle, launch a business, or build a startup and you keep hitting mental block after mental block &#8212; know that Islam already has an answer for that. </p><p>The Silicon Valley and Western startup world often glorifies a particular mindset: be &#8220;delulu,&#8221; be delusional, be the narcissistic founder who wills something into existence through sheer audacity. But Islam offers a different paradigm entirely: one that is rooted in the Quran, deeply natural, and <strong>accessible to everyone</strong>.</p><p>Here&#8217;s something that often confuses people: <strong>there is almost no correlation between intelligence and building a financially successful business.</strong> In fact, the relationship might be inverse. The more intelligent a person, the less likely they may be to actually start. Why? Because intelligent people have the foresight to identify every roadblock, every risk, every reason it won&#8217;t work &#8212; and they overthink and over-engineer before they&#8217;ve even begun. They fail before they start, or they check out entirely under the weight of limitations they&#8217;ve already mapped out.</p><p>Meanwhile, the person who doesn&#8217;t fully see all the obstacles ahead? They just&#8230; go. They push through: fueled by optimism, ego-ism, or sheer focus on their mission. They start messy. They iterate. They figure it out as they go.</p><p>This is actually what startups are built on. <strong>Founders rarely get it right the first time.</strong> They start with a rough idea, learn from their customers, pivot, adapt, and build on top of what they discover. It&#8217;s not that they were smart enough to get it right: they were brave enough to start, and humble enough to keep iterating.</p><p>And this is exactly what the Quran anchors me to when I feel paralyzed.</p><p>&#1608;&#1614;&#1571;&#1614;&#1606; &#1604;&#1614;&#1617;&#1610;&#1618;&#1587;&#1614; &#1604;&#1616;&#1604;&#1618;&#1573;&#1616;&#1606;&#1587;&#1614;&#1575;&#1606;&#1616; &#1573;&#1616;&#1604;&#1614;&#1617;&#1575; &#1605;&#1614;&#1575; &#1587;&#1614;&#1593;&#1614;&#1609;&#1648; &#1757; &#1608;&#1614;&#1571;&#1614;&#1606;&#1614;&#1617; &#1587;&#1614;&#1593;&#1618;&#1610;&#1614;&#1607;&#1615; &#1587;&#1614;&#1608;&#1618;&#1601;&#1614; &#1610;&#1615;&#1585;&#1614;&#1609;&#1648;</p><p>&#8220;That the human being will only have what they strive for &#8212; and that their striving will be seen.&#8221;</p><p>(Surah An-Najm, 53:39-40)</p><p>This ayah is not telling us to figure everything out before we move. It&#8217;s telling us to move. To explore. To try. None of us hold success solely in our own hands &#8212; that&#8217;s not the nature of this dunya, and that&#8217;s the reminder: <strong>Allah holds all power, and He is the One who grants success.</strong> But what we learn through this ayah is that as human beings, we are meant to strive. We are meant to learn from our mistakes, iterate, prototype, and explore. We are creatures of pattern and growth. We are not meant to get things right on the first try (otherwise we&#8217;d be angels).</p><p>And yet: that expectation of perfection is exactly what stops so many of us from starting at all.</p><p>So if you have a business idea, a side hustle you&#8217;ve been sitting on, a startup concept that keeps coming back to you, the Islamic paradigm isn&#8217;t asking you to have it all figured out. It&#8217;s asking you to begin. Start small. Stay sincere. Make duaa. Trust in Allah. And build from there.</p><p></p><p></p><p><em>Edited with the help of Claude AI &#8212; because we&#8217;re real like that. &#10024; (you probably already guessed it anyways with all the em dashes&#8230;)</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[mist to mountains]]></title><description><![CDATA[Y&#257; Ras&#363;l All&#257;h &#65018;,]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/mist-to-mountains</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/mist-to-mountains</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2026 06:17:04 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Y&#257; Ras&#363;l All&#257;h &#65018;,</p><p>How vast your rank, how luminous your way. These days I sit counting my sins &#8212; the hours I squander, the smallness of my concerns, the little good I manage to offer &#8212; and then I look toward your legacy. What did you not give to mankind? You carried revelation, endured exile, buried children, forgave enemies, wept for your ummah in the night. And what have we carried except ourselves?</p><p>The Lord of the Worlds chose you above all of us. I lower my head in shame at the thought that I share your humanity &#8212; yet how far apart we are in station. There is no comparison. I come with nothing before my Lord but repentance, and even that trembling return is only by His permission, and known through your sunnah. Any claim we make to &#8220;impact&#8221; or &#8220;legacy&#8221; is a wisp of mist beside the oceans you left behind.</p><p>And still &#8212; you love this ummah. Still you are described as ra&#8217;&#363;f and ra&#7717;&#299;m toward the believers. You feared for our ending. You worried for our standing before Allah more than we worry for ourselves. Our hearts, with all their noise and volatility, are pebbles beside your mountain of mercy. How beautiful, the man who the Lord of the Worlds chose to guide us all! </p><p>Y&#257; Ras&#363;l All&#257;h &#65018;, may Allah send peace and blessings upon you &#8212; in numbers known only to Him, equal to the weight of His Throne and to the measure that pleases Him &#8212; and may He allow us, despite our shortcomings, to follow your path.</p><p>At-Tawbah - Verse 128</p><p>&#1604;&#1614;&#1602;&#1614;&#1583;&#1618; &#1580;&#1614;&#1575;&#1569;&#1614;&#1603;&#1615;&#1605;&#1618; &#1585;&#1614;&#1587;&#1615;&#1608;&#1604;&#1612; &#1605;&#1616;&#1617;&#1606;&#1618; &#1571;&#1614;&#1606;&#1601;&#1615;&#1587;&#1616;&#1603;&#1615;&#1605;&#1618; &#1593;&#1614;&#1586;&#1616;&#1610;&#1586;&#1612; &#1593;&#1614;&#1604;&#1614;&#1610;&#1618;&#1607;&#1616; &#1605;&#1614;&#1575; &#1593;&#1614;&#1606;&#1616;&#1578;&#1615;&#1617;&#1605;&#1618; &#1581;&#1614;&#1585;&#1616;&#1610;&#1589;&#1612; &#1593;&#1614;&#1604;&#1614;&#1610;&#1618;&#1603;&#1615;&#1605; &#1576;&#1616;&#1575;&#1604;&#1618;&#1605;&#1615;&#1572;&#1618;&#1605;&#1616;&#1606;&#1616;&#1610;&#1606;&#1614; &#1585;&#1614;&#1569;&#1615;&#1608;&#1601;&#1612; &#1585;&#1614;&#1617;&#1581;&#1616;&#1610;&#1605;&#1612;</p><p>There certainly has come to you a messenger from among yourselves. He is concerned by your suffering, anxious for your well-being, and gracious and merciful to the believers.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[the first aches of ramadan]]></title><description><![CDATA[The first days of Ramadan are not always outwardly luminous.]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/the-first-aches-of-ramadan</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/the-first-aches-of-ramadan</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2026 04:59:31 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>The first days of Ramadan are not always outwardly luminous. Sometimes they are disorienting. The appetite resists. The sleep shifts. The heart, suddenly stripped of its distractions, feels louder than usual &#8212; some of us may try to silence it even more than in other months. For the western Muslim, this experience is heightened. No lunch break, no quick run to the store for a bite to eat, no coffee run to kill some time to buy our dopamine away. Time seems plentiful and our anxieties have free rein and ample time to consume us. Many of us, including myself, attempt to stifle it. </p><p></p><p>Classical scholars understood this turbulence. In <a href="chatgpt://generic-entity?number=0">Ihya Ulum al-Din</a>, <a href="chatgpt://generic-entity?number=1">Imam al-Ghazali</a> explains that fasting unsettles the nafs because it interrupts its habits of consumption and comfort. Agitation, in this framing, is not failure&#8212; it can be the beginning of refinement. The Prophet &#65018; taught that when Ramadan enters, the gates of mercy are opened and the devils are chained (reported in <a href="chatgpt://generic-entity?number=2">Sahih al-Bukhari</a> and <a href="chatgpt://generic-entity?number=3">Sahih Muslim</a>). Yet scholars like <a href="chatgpt://generic-entity?number=4">Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali</a>, in <a href="chatgpt://generic-entity?number=5">Lataif al-Ma&#8217;arif</a>, remind us that while external whisperings may be restrained, the habits of the self remain. Ramadan does not erase the nafs; it reveals it. And revelation can be uncomfortable. When distractions fall away, we meet our impatience, our attachments, our fatigue, our anxieties, and our addictions. This manifestation of your previously stifled self is not a sign that the blessings of Ramadan have &#8220;missed&#8221; you. It may be the very sign that the cleansing is beginning. In order to know what needs correction, it needs to be made visible. It makes sense for this to happen to the believer in the beginning of the month. However the believer must hold on, remain steadfast. </p><p></p><p>If these early days of Ramadan feel heavy, do not rush to escape them. Mercy does not always arrive as sweetness; sometimes it arrives as clarity. In your lowness, humble yourself. Meet Allah the Exalted not with a polished version of yourself, but with your need, your shame, your rawness cupped in your hands. Better to turn to Him here &#8212; confessing weakness, asking for guidance &#8212; than to meet Him having never surrendered in the dunya. Our hidayah is in His Hands. Relieve yourself of the illusion that your habits, your systems, your discipline will carry you to the finish line. Simply ask the One Who Guides to continue guiding you. Praise Him. Thank Him. Seek forgiveness, even if that is all you can offer. A single moment of true humility before the Lord is more valuable than all the treasures you can amass. </p><p></p><p>I seek refuge in Allah from the accursed satan</p><p>Bismillah.</p><p>A moment of humility towards the Lord Almighty, The One Who Our souls are in His Hands. The One Who Guides Whom He Wills. </p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[my personal principles on ai use -- as a stanford grad & ai product manager]]></title><description><![CDATA[islamically rooted & God-conscious principles i attempt to follow day to day in my inevitable use of data-mining apps and ai.]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/my-personal-principles-on-ai-use</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/my-personal-principles-on-ai-use</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2026 03:16:20 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>**this is unedited and very stream of consciousness, so forgive my lack of adab and etiquette. however i wanted to get these principles written down and disseminated with the hope that some can find benefit in it &#8212; please make duaa for this sister of yours to formalize and edit this into a redeemable piece at some point inshAllah.</em></p><p>the goal of this write up is not to be pretentious, map on to the superflous tech yap, or to add to the thousands of unread articles on ethical ai usage. my aim with this is to be concise, authentic, and to share some of the principles i attempt to follow when my 9-5+ is all AI development.</p><p>i use these principles on a consumer/personal basis level (i.e. not aimed for organizations or masajid using ai) &#8212; this is more for the average Moe. let&#8217;s keep it quick and dirty &#8212;</p><h3>Principles</h3><ul><li><p><em><strong>principle: limit as much data about yourself that you put into any LLM whenever possible.</strong></em><strong> </strong>Anything you put in any LLM (Claude, GPT, Gemini, etc) is used to most likely build a mental, psychological, professional, social, etc. map of who you are. the ultimate goal is to always collect as much data as possible about you. </p><ul><li><p>provides multiple benefits; ecological, data preservation, critical thinking skills, not becoming brain-rotty, list goes on</p></li></ul></li><li><p><em><strong>principle: frame your questions as an objective researcher, very distanced from the question at hand.</strong> </em>If you are tempted, as I often am, to have your email edited, to do some brainstorming, to get emotional advice, to learn about a topic, and you ultimately use an LLM, do not reference yourself as the user of this information, and give as little context as possible as to why you are putting it into the LLM. E.g. instead of saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m in an argument with my wife about X topic&#8221;, say, &#8220;What are the research recommendations for couples across the US who struggle with X, Y, Z marital issues&#8230;&#8221; </p><ul><li><p>this provides multiple benefits; namely we&#8217;ve seen that LLM conversations are not privileged and have been used in criminal court against people. also, minimizes the &#8220;mental map&#8221; that the LLM is building of you because it can&#8217;t associate it to you exactly. </p></li><li><p>extra credit 1: tell the LLM to be as concise as possible. for your sake and energy wise. </p></li><li><p>extra credit 2: be concise in your input. dont paste in thousands of words &#8212; energy +1</p></li></ul></li><li><p><em><strong>principle: i don&#8217;t recommend to ever use the conversational/voice feature with the LLM.</strong></em> I actually have no upfront reasoning for it. just seems creepy and also im sure they store the recordings of your voice.</p></li></ul><ul><li><p><em><strong>principle: if the question to the LLM can be phrased as a duaa, make the duaa instead.</strong></em> for muslims, Alhamdulilah, Allah the Exalted has protected us from the inane discussions around AI &#8216;consciousness&#8217;. however, idolization/shirk happens in subtle layers.</p></li></ul><blockquote><p>the Prophet peace be upon him &#65018; said, &#8220;<strong>O Abu Bakr, there is idolatry among you more hidden than the crawling of an ant.</strong>&#8221; Abu Bakr said, &#8220;Is there idolatry other than to make a god alongside Allah?&#8221; The Prophet said, &#8220;<strong>By the One in whose hand is my soul, there is idolatry more hidden than the crawling of an ant. Shall I not tell you something to say to rid you of it, both minor and major? Say: O Allah, I seek refuge in You that I associate partners with You while I know, and I seek Your forgiveness for what I do not know.</strong>&#8221;</p></blockquote><ul><li><p>You may find yourself self soothing with a conversation with the LLM or rationalizing your emotions &#8212; sure, great for practical secular psycho-conversational socialization. however the equivalent of this is stuffing a wound with synthetic biomaterial that will disintegrate and still leave you empty, rather than turning to your Lord. (or at least, another soul?)</p></li><li><p><em><strong>principle: don&#8217;t add into the &#8216;AGI&#8217; will take over the world doom and gloom oh my god we are done for- discussions</strong></em>. at most, its result is dajjalic-aiding, with the Prophet &#65018; already elaborating the forthcoming events. the end of the world is near, we already know. why are we so hung up on how we are getting there? AI is just another talking point. why are we attaching emotional fear and stress to it? Instead, reorient your focus on what we are are doing day to day to be upstanding Muslims and/or how we are contributing to it. may Allah guide us to fear only Him.</p></li><li><p><em><strong>principle: try not to make images unless you have to. especially ones of people. </strong></em></p></li><li><p><em><strong>principle: make the intention, even if you&#8217;re not ready or deem it possible, to ultimately offload from harmful ai tools and data mining apps. </strong></em>its almost unimaginable for most to believe they can get off instagram, youtube, stop using gpt for personal reasons, etc. however, do we have taqwa in Allah? Do we believe His ability to do anything? to guide us to goodness? the only thing we are lacking in is in our prayer &#8212; in any case &#8212; we are not guided to do anything without His Support or Permission. therefore, why do we think any differently when it comes to technology usage? it&#8217;s an addiction and reliance, and pray to Him to guide us to the best usage of technology in a way pleasing to Him. may Allah grant us this! </p><ul><li><p>my personal technique is to go from &#8216;most adhd app&#8217; &#8212;&gt; &#8216;least adhd app&#8217;, and to continuously progress towards reading longer form text and watching longer videos/podcasts. this has gotten me off tiktok and instagram almost permanently Alhamdulilah and this is from the grace of my Lord</p></li></ul></li></ul><p></p><blockquote><p>&#1608;&#1614;&#1649;&#1604;&#1618;&#1593;&#1614;&#1589;&#1618;&#1585;&#1616; </p><p>By the &#761;passage of&#762; time!</p><p>&#1573;&#1616;&#1606;&#1617;&#1614; &#1649;&#1604;&#1618;&#1573;&#1616;&#1606;&#1587;&#1614;&#1600;&#1648;&#1606;&#1614; &#1604;&#1614;&#1601;&#1616;&#1609; &#1582;&#1615;&#1587;&#1618;&#1585;&#1613; </p><p>Surely humanity is in &#761;grave&#762; loss,</p><p>&#1573;&#1616;&#1604;&#1617;&#1614;&#1575; &#1649;&#1604;&#1617;&#1614;&#1584;&#1616;&#1610;&#1606;&#1614; &#1569;&#1614;&#1575;&#1605;&#1614;&#1606;&#1615;&#1608;&#1575;&#1759; &#1608;&#1614;&#1593;&#1614;&#1605;&#1616;&#1604;&#1615;&#1608;&#1575;&#1759; &#1649;&#1604;&#1589;&#1617;&#1614;&#1600;&#1648;&#1604;&#1616;&#1581;&#1614;&#1600;&#1648;&#1578;&#1616; &#1608;&#1614;&#1578;&#1614;&#1608;&#1614;&#1575;&#1589;&#1614;&#1608;&#1618;&#1575;&#1759; &#1576;&#1616;&#1649;&#1604;&#1618;&#1581;&#1614;&#1602;&#1617;&#1616; &#1608;&#1614;&#1578;&#1614;&#1608;&#1614;&#1575;&#1589;&#1614;&#1608;&#1618;&#1575;&#1759; &#1576;&#1616;&#1649;&#1604;&#1589;&#1617;&#1614;&#1576;&#1618;&#1585;&#1616; </p><p>except those who have faith, do good, and urge each other to the truth, and urge each other to perseverance.</p><p><strong>Surat Al-Asr, The Declining Day (103:1-3) </strong></p></blockquote><div class="pullquote"><p>O Allah, bless our Master Muhammad, who opened what was closed and sealed what was before. He makes the truth victorious by the truth and he is the guide to Your Straight Path. And bless his Household as it befits his immense stature and splendor.</p><p>&#1575;&#1614;&#1604;&#1604;&#1614;&#1617;&#1607;&#1615;&#1605;&#1614;&#1617; &#1589;&#1614;&#1604;&#1616;&#1617; &#1593;&#1614;&#1604;&#1609; &#1587;&#1614;&#1610;&#1616;&#1617;&#1583;&#1616;&#1606;&#1614;&#1575; &#1605;&#1615;&#1581;&#1614;&#1605;&#1614;&#1617;&#1583;&#1613; &#1575;&#1614;&#1604;&#1618;&#1601;&#1614;&#1575;&#1578;&#1616;&#1581;&#1616; &#1604;&#1616;&#1605;&#1614;&#1575; &#1571;&#1615;&#1594;&#1618;&#1604;&#1616;&#1602;&#1614; &#1608;&#1614; &#1575;&#1614;&#1604;&#1618;&#1582;&#1614;&#1575;&#1578;&#1616;&#1605;&#1616; &#1604;&#1616;&#1605;&#1614;&#1575; &#1587;&#1614;&#1576;&#1614;&#1602;&#1614; &#1606;&#1614;&#1575;&#1589;&#1616;&#1585;&#1616; &#1575;&#1604;&#1618;&#1581;&#1614;&#1602;&#1616;&#1617; &#1576;&#1614;&#1575;&#1604;&#1618;&#1581;&#1614;&#1602;&#1614;&#1617; &#1608;&#1614; &#1575;&#1604;&#1618;&#1607;&#1614;&#1575;&#1583;&#1616;&#1610; &#1573;&#1604;&#1609; &#1589;&#1616;&#1585;&#1614;&#1575;&#1591;&#1616;&#1603;&#1614; &#1575;&#1604;&#1618;&#1605;&#1615;&#1587;&#1618;&#1578;&#1614;&#1602;&#1616;&#1610;&#1605;&#1616; &#1608;&#1614; &#1593;&#1614;&#1604;&#1614;&#1609; &#1570;&#1604;&#1616;&#1607;&#1616; &#1581;&#1614;&#1602;&#1614;&#1617; &#1602;&#1614;&#1583;&#1618;&#1585;&#1616;&#1607;&#1616; &#1608; &#1605;&#1616;&#1602;&#1618;&#1583;&#1614;&#1575;&#1585;&#1616;&#1607;&#1616; &#1575;&#1604;&#1618;&#1593;&#1614;&#1592;&#1616;&#1610;&#1605;</p></div><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[the importance of duaa journaling (and how to do it)]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is in preparation for my first halaqa with MAS (Muslim American Society).]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/the-importance-of-duaa-journaling</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/the-importance-of-duaa-journaling</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2026 18:48:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is in preparation for my first halaqa with MAS (Muslim American Society). We will be designing journals similar to this:</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png" width="362" height="386.0362173038229" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1060,&quot;width&quot;:994,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:362,&quot;bytes&quot;:1329197,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/png&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://messagesfromtheummah.substack.com/i/184347508?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0KIE!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F72bbf59f-70d9-4cd4-9ab0-311a36fe1c85_994x1060.png 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>Outlining the khatera + activity:</p><ul><li><p>Introduce the activity &#8212; designing journals and hand-sewing the covers!</p></li><li><p>Purpose &#8212; this will operate as your Rajab/Shaban/Ramadan duaa journal</p></li><li><p>Steadfastness &#8212; in the groupchat, every few days I will send a name of Allah SWT for you to complete your duaa journal entry with</p></li></ul><h2><strong>Why Duaa Journaling? Why not just make regular duaa?</strong></h2><p>Impact</p><ul><li><p>Scientific </p><ul><li><p>The scientific benefit of writing things down</p></li></ul><blockquote><p>You're 42% more likely to achieve your goals if you write them down.<br>In a Harvard study:<br>&#8226; 84% of people had no goals<br>&#8226; 13% had unwritten goals<br>&#8226; 3% wrote down goals<br><br>The 3% were 3x more likely to succeed than those with unwritten goal.</p></blockquote></li></ul><div class="pullquote"><p>&#8220;Goals that are not written down are just wishes&#8221;</p></div><ul><li><p>Spiritual impact</p><ul><li><p>Noon, wal Qalam&#8230;</p></li><li><p>The Quran is a written book</p></li><li><p>The importance of writing</p></li></ul><div class="pullquote"><p>"Read! And your Lord is the Most Generous &#8212; Who taught by the pen &#8212; Taught man that which he knew not" (Quran 96:3-5).</p></div><p><strong>Does Allah SWT mean a physical pen? Is this a metaphor for something?</strong></p><ul><li><p>the pen is a &#8220;means&#8221;, &#8220;utensil&#8221;, '&#8220;mechanism&#8221;, &#8220;medium&#8221; by which you do something. Give me some examples of potential pens&#8230; to start off, for a soccer team, their &#8220;game strategy&#8221; is their pen&#8230; what is another example</p></li></ul></li><li><p>Conceptualizing your thoughts and needs</p><ul><li><p>Staying only in your head is not helpful&#8230; humans need outlets in order to understand themselves and the world around them</p></li><li><p>This can be through conversation, reading, or writing</p></li></ul></li><li><p>Goals Vs Duaa</p><ul><li><p>we all make new years goals, but how many of them actually pan out? You create arbitrary ways to achieve those goals but I guarantee 99% of the time they probably flop&#8230;. how do we remediate this issue?</p></li><li><p>Goals need:</p><ul><li><p>Consistency in duaa (asking)</p></li><li><p>Consistency in istighfar (forgiveness for shortcomings)</p></li><li><p>Steadfastness (sabr)</p></li><li><p>and even if you don&#8217;t make it, you&#8217;re rewarded by intention</p></li></ul></li></ul></li></ul><p>Be aware!!! Are you doing goals for your self (nafs) or Allah SWT? </p><p><strong>Doing goals for your nafs looks like:</strong></p><ul><li><p>becoming really upset when you don&#8217;t achieve your goals</p></li><li><p>attributing confidence or happiness to yourself when you achieve it&#8230; </p></li><li><p>Not making duaa about your goal (ever, or only once)</p></li><li><p>Giving up and thinking &#8220;yeah goals always flop anyways, at least i tried&#8221;</p></li></ul><p><strong>Doing goals for the sake of Allah SWT:</strong></p><ul><li><p>thanking Allah SWT for inspiring you with that goal</p></li><li><p>Making duaa for you to keep steadfast on that goal </p></li><li><p>Being thankful to Allah SWT for being able to work on your goal</p></li><li><p>Doing istighfar when you miss your goal, but not upset/hate yourself for missing it</p></li><li><p>Not GIVING UP, but realizing you will only complete your Goal if Allah SWT wants you to</p></li><li><p>Not being too focused on whether you do it day in/day out, but more focused on trying to stay consistent in small amounts&#8230; </p></li><li><p>Knowing what - La hawla wala quwata ila billah - means</p></li></ul><p>Think about it this way: All of your unachieved goals are opportunities for you to get closer to Allah SWT. Think about it, if you achieved all of your goals easily, then you would miss out on connecting to Allah SWT and asking Him for you to complete your goals. </p><h2><strong>How will we do this as an usrah?</strong></h2><ul><li><p>&#8230;..</p></li><li><p>&#8230;.</p></li></ul>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Fragrant Ascension ]]></title><description><![CDATA[An Ode to the Scent of the Beloved]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/fragrant-ascension</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/fragrant-ascension</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2025 02:08:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!5YeG!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa0b6f00b-4b53-4fe2-95a5-d5785bb2afc7_768x768.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah</p><p>Across the Desert plain under the Star-lit sky.</p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah</p><p>On a journey to forever define creation,</p><p>Where truth revealed itself and the measure was set for the very last time.</p><p></p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah</p><p>Let me breathe the Scent of Allah&#8217;s Light,</p><p>As I sit in rapture behind you on Buraq&#8217;s flight.</p><p>Clinging to your beloved mantle, rising toward Ursa, past the Pan Handle.</p><p>At your elegance the stars did cluster, clamouring for just a glimpse of the beloved luster,</p><p>A luster I would embrace &#8211; &#8220;That&#8217;s my Prophet!&#8221; I proudly stammer As we pierce through the Outer-Sphere.</p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah</p><p></p><p>Resplendent congregation requiring your lead,</p><p>Aqsa&#8217;s four corners awash with wisdom,</p><p>Be Patient trusty Steed,</p><p>For This congregation, only Mustapha &#65018; can lead.</p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah</p><p></p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah &#65018;</p><p>and every breath I inhale</p><p>The fragrant layers of scent,</p><p>That makes Musk hang its head in shame,</p><p>Jasmine embarrassed to radiate and feign,</p><p>Roses, blossoms imitate and pale,</p><p>Frankincense attempt comparatively stale.</p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah</p><p></p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah &#65018; Until we reach the gates of Sidrat al-Muntaha</p><p>But at every Heaven &#8211; &#8220;Who goes with you Gabrielle?&#8221;</p><p>Don&#8217;t you know? that&#8217;s Muhammad &#65018; The Perfect Seal !</p><p></p><p>Onward and duly bound,</p><p>The elixir of musk</p><p>That does only astound.</p><p>Layered with Your Light of love</p><p>And fragrant essence pure and profound</p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah</p><p></p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah &#65018; to meet your lineage Ibrahim (AS) Musa (AS) &amp; Isa (AS).</p><p>As your noble lineage sagaciously await,</p><p>to contemplate a gift 50 times profound,</p><p>Our Lord&#8217;s Excuse to allow your return</p><p>And shyly request clemency for your Ummah&#8217;s concern</p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah&#65018;</p><p></p><p>Take me with you Ya RasullAllah</p><p></p><p>From whose fragrance Paradises&#8217; fragrance emerged.</p><p>What fragrance could encompass this heart filled with Allah&#8217;s Majesty?</p><p>And who&#8217;s eyes were filled with Allah&#8217;s Beauty, two bow lengths apart.</p><p>Let me recite blessings upon you of infinite light,</p><p>Perfumed with your name,</p><p>A fragrant name</p><p>that perfumed every world,</p><p>&#65018;</p><p>My Master Muhammad Take me with you</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Poems to the Beloved &#65018;! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support this work.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[fruits from the gardener]]></title><description><![CDATA[From Muharram 1445, approximately one year ago&#8230;]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/fruits-from-the-gardener</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/fruits-from-the-gardener</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2025 16:09:09 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From Muharram 1445, approximately one year ago&#8230;</p><p></p><p>Marking the Hijrah.</p><p>With lessons of struggles, defeat and sacrifice. Of those better than me tenfold.</p><p>My struggles are seeds on a strawberry, scarcely noticed and swallowed whole.</p><p>While true Sabiqoon before me toiled on the very earth that plowed the garden for the strawberry to grow.</p><p>Thank to them, and the leader of them, the Rasool &#65018;</p><p>and Glory to the Almighty, the Raheem, for blessing us to toil on this earth as an act of Remembrance of Him.</p><p>In luscious lands we are born and in His wondrous Garden we Hope to return.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Loving him ﷺ more than we Love Our Selves ]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the Name of Allah the Most Compassionate and the Most Merciful]]></description><link>https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/loving-him-more-than-we-love-our</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/p/loving-him-more-than-we-love-our</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[The Divine Feminine]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2025 02:56:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa0b6f00b-4b53-4fe2-95a5-d5785bb2afc7_768x768.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Narrated `Abdullah bin Hisham:</p><p>We were with the Prophet (&#65018;) and he was holding the hand of `Umar bin Al-Khattab. `Umar said to Him, "O Allah's Messenger (&#65018;)! You are dearer to me than everything except my own self." The Prophet (&#65018;) said, "No, by Him in Whose Hand my soul is, (you will not have complete faith) till I am dearer to you than your own self." Then `Umar said to him, "However, now, by Allah, you are dearer to me than my own self." The Prophet (&#65018;) said, "Now, O `Umar, (now you are a believer).</p><p><em>Sahih al-Bukhari 6632. Thanks to sunnah.com for easy access to hadith. May Allah bless them. </em></p><p>Reflection questions: </p><ul><li><p>What does preferring our selves over Rasool Allah &#65018; mean?</p></li><li><p>In what ways might we prefer ourselves over our nafs?</p></li><li><p>How does that express itself in actions?</p></li><li><p>How does that express itself in thoughts?</p></li><li><p>In words?</p></li><li><p>In relationships?</p></li><li><p>In our communication with our Lord Almighty?</p></li><li><p>In our dissemination of islamic scholarship?</p></li></ul><p><strong>How might this impact the ummah?</strong></p><p>If you have a poem to share with Rasool Allah&#8217;s &#65018; ummah, submit it here: bit.ly/peacebeuponhim</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://pearlsofwomen.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Subscribe to join yearning hearts in remembering him &#65018;</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>